An anger is a normal human emotion.But when it becomes out of control,then it create problems for himself as well as people related to him.During our anger,we can lose many good relations and later on,we have nothing but despair.
An anger is the worst enemy for a person.During his anger,he forgets the respect of our elders.We have seen in our daily life that two best friends don't talk with each other due to ego and anger.In the same way,a marriage life can be destroyed due to anger.Out Holy Prophet(Peace Be Upon Him) also warned us from anger.
Ibn Muflih al-Hanbali said:
‘Ali ibn Abi Taalib (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: It may be known whether a person is really patient at the time of anger. And he used to say that the beginning of anger is madness and the end of it is regret.(reference taken from islamqa.info).
Our Holy Prophet(S.A.W) faced many difficulties in the privilege of Islam but he(S.A.W) never became angry and remained patience.As a result of his struggle,we are Muslims now.
But,how can we control anger?
1. Breath deeply and say again and again,"relax,relax".
2. Think patiently that this anger will lead to despair.
3. Drink water.
I will try my best to control my anger.Will you?
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